Don't let others affect you !
One of our main weaknesses is letting others affect our mental state. (I am talking about myself :)
Somebody being rude, and I am angry. Somebody being inconsiderate, and I am hurt. A mental strength is like a physical strength, it means standing firm under pressure, it means withstanding punches and avoiding wounds. Let's others' mean behaviours sliding over you, ignore these, as you are living by your principles and therefore you are happy being yourself.
Never try to please other people. Be nice, but don't care about pleasing them, just focus on growing your awesomeness. Because pleasing them give them the power over you and your mental peace. You have to worry about pleasing everyone -> you forgot your principles.
Living by principles is the main thing!
Once you live by principles, build yourself up, and gather achievements, you just need to be polite and people will like you. There is no point in try to be liked and neglecting your principles, as that is catering to the leaves, not the root of the tree.
Mental strength = living by principles !
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